How to Make Like-Minded Friends in Real Life
Making friends as an adult can feel… tricky. You’re busy, social circles are set, and meeting new people often ends up as awkward small talk over coffee you didn’t really want to drink. Good news: Finding your people doesn’t have to be hard — it can actually be fun.
If you want friends who share your vibe, interests, or just get your humor, the magic happens when you put yourself in the right experiences and environments.
Why Like-Minded Friendships Are Worth It
Friends who click with you aren’t just “nice to have.” They:
Make everyday life more fun and spontaneous
Give you motivation, encouragement, and inspiration
Turn ordinary outings into unforgettable memories
How Can I Make Like-Minded Friends in Real Life?
Here’s where the magic happens — putting yourself in the right situations and intentionally connecting with others.
Join activity-based groups
Think hiking clubs, art or pottery classes, board game nights, dance workshops, or yoga sessions. Shared experiences make conversation effortless.
Attend local events
Festivals, pop-up markets, creative workshops, or volunteering opportunities are perfect ways to meet people naturally.
Leverage social apps built for experiences
WentSwell connects you with people nearby who want to do what you love — no awkward swiping, just shared adventures.
Say yes to new adventures
Even if it’s slightly outside your comfort zone, trying new activities often leads to lasting friendships and fun stories.
How to Turn Acquaintances Into Real Friends
Follow up after an event — a simple “Hey, had fun today! Want to do [next activity]?” works wonders
Be consistent — friendships grow when you see people regularly
Mix casual and structured activities — coffee catch-ups, group outings, and classes all help deepen connections
Other People Like You Are Wondering…
Q: How can I meet people with similar hobbies?
A: Join hobby-based groups, attend workshops, or use activity-focused apps like WentSwell to connect with others who love the same things you do.
Q: Is it possible to make friends as an adult?
A: Absolutely! The key is shared experiences and consistent interaction — even small activities can turn into meaningful friendships.
Q: What are fun ways to meet new people?
A: Try local events, creative classes, sports leagues, or adventure activities. Doing something together makes conversation natural and fun.
Final Tip: Put Fun First
Friendship shouldn’t feel like a chore — it should feel like an adventure. Focus on shared experiences, curiosity, and showing up with excitement. WentSwell makes it easy to meet people who are up for the same adventures as you, so you can turn ordinary days into memorable connections.
