Skip the Swipe: How Doing Stuff Together Beats Digital Dating
If you’ve ever scrolled endlessly on dating apps only to end up with awkward coffee dates, you’re not alone. Modern dating often feels like a numbers game instead of an experience. WentSwell flips that script: the best way to meet someone isn’t swiping — it’s doing stuff together.
Whether it’s rock climbing, a painting class, or an impromptu board game night, experiences create real-life chemistry. Shared laughs, challenges, and tiny victories turn strangers into friends — or maybe even more.
Did you know? Adults who meet people through shared activities are 70% more likely to feel an instant connection compared to traditional online dating.
Why Doing Beats Swiping
We all love swiping right on someone exciting, but do you ever find yourself bored with swiping and not doing anything? What if you could do both?
Instant common ground: You don’t need small talk; you have a shared activity.
True personalities shine: How someone climbs, paints, or laughs tells you more than a profile ever could.
Memorable moments: Every shared adventure gives you stories to bond over.
Step 1: Pick Adventures That Excite You
The best connections happen when you’re genuinely having fun:
Adventure seekers: hiking, kayaking, rock climbing
Creative types: pottery, painting, cooking classes
Playful competitors: trivia nights, escape rooms, board games
Step 2: Use WentSwell to Make It Happen
WentSwell isn’t about profiles and algorithms; it’s about real experiences:
Post your own activity: “Hike & Brunch: Saturday Morning Adventure”
Browse local events and join groups already planning adventures
Connect naturally while doing something fun — no forced icebreakers needed
Step 3: Engage and Enjoy
Show up, participate, and let the shared activity guide conversation.
Ask questions, laugh at mishaps, and celebrate successes together.
Suggest follow-ups: coffee after a hike, or a weekend board game challenge.
Step 4: Make It Repeatable
Attend recurring events or plan mini-series (“Weekly Climb & Chill”)
Keep in touch with people you vibe with
Mix activities: one weekend hiking, the next weekend trivia night
Consistency is key — shared adventure + repeated exposure = friendship gold.
Other People Like You Asked…
Q: Can adventure activities really help me meet people?
Absolutely — shared experiences spark connection faster than chatting online.
Q: Do I need to be skilled at the activity?
Not at all! Fun and participation matter more than perfection.
Q: What if I’m shy?
Start with structured events. The activity itself naturally creates conversation and reduces awkwardness.
